I am patient, and I will follow whatever rules you give me regarding your kids meal times and screen times. My apartment is void of anything they can break so no worries about having to be responsible for something like that. I speak very clearly to children with a sense of fairness so they know why im saying no rather than just telling them no and thats that. I have childproof locks on all my cabinets and doors. And I encourage them to watch educational cartoons and shows for children that are emotionally mature, like Bluey, and NO to shows like peppa pig. I always carry coloring books and other such things for enrichment
I have babysat for all my siblings and cousins for free until I moved out on my own. Ever since I was 12 years old, I was left to take care of my new born sister during the summer and each summer after that when my parents would go to work.