Hi everyone! My babygirl is 20 months old and she started daycare 2 weeks ago. She is crying a lot. I think this is normal but I have few concerns . I wasn't allowed to be the first days with her as it was when my sons started daycare. The management said that before covid was different now a parent isn't allowed at the premises. We dropped off our kids at the door we aren't allowed to visit or to pick up them from the hallway or classroom. We should ring the bell and someone from the staff will bring her outside. Also I said can I just come and check on her without her seeing me. They said no. I feel that there isn't a transparency there. We have an application where the teachers are posting pictures or short videos. When I asked to see a picture of her plate they start saying you should trust us etc. The baby lost wheight and isn't touching the food there at all. As a mother I am concerned and they told me that she should start eating by herself because they will have a new kid coming the teachers don't have time to feed her etc. I feel so stressed and unhappy, because she I can feel she isn't well. Please tell me is all this normal. I talked to friends and other daycares today and they told me the parents are welcomed to check on their kids. And come inside to pick up their kids. Please tell me I am exaggerating!?