I have two boys. My oldest is 11 going on 12. I had him at the age of 16. I was so young, he was kinda like my brother. We went through everything together. Until I got older and had to actually do the whole mommy thing by myself. I then had another baby boy. He is now 1. Feels like k clean up every day all day. Lol. So I’m use to it. I have to make sure dinner is prepared by 7-8 so my oldest will have time to get ready for school the next day. Shower, homework, house chores, and time for himself.